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Posted by KeyceBoo 53 days ago (Question)

i lost my virginity two weeks ago and i was SO nervous.
i really didnt know what to do. but the guy rubbed his penis on my vagina and sort of went in. my last period was about 2 weeks before i lost my virginity. Its been about 2 weeks later since I lost my virginity and i still havnt had my period yet.(its been about a month or more since my last period) we used a condom but I think because it was my first time my period might becoming in late but at the same time i think i might be pregnant because he rubbed his penis against my vagina. at first i didnt think i was pregnant but then my period hasn't been coming yet(and its been a month) But I think he thinks he got me pregnant because he asks me if I'm throwing up and asking if I started my period or not(which I haven't). So I'm worried I might be pregnant or something. Should I take a pregnancy test or don't worry? Please Help.

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Written by Chemar 53 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

if your period is late the only way to check is a home pregnancy test. they arent 100% accurate but the more advanced ones are usually able to detect pregnancy hormones at a very early stage.

you can also have a reliable pregnancy test done at your doctors office

it isnt unusual for periods to be late, unless you have always been very regular in the past. You may just be anxious because of the first time intercourse.

Written by jenmog 52 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

You said that you used a condom. His semen needs to travel up the passage of your vagina, through your cervix and into your fallopian tubes in order for you to get pregnant. If you used a condom, how would the semen have got up there? Don't worry. Take a test in a few weeks time to ease your mind though.

As for sex - go on some form of reliable birth control. You need to be physically aroused "down there" and it won't happen if you are nervous. Just play around and let it happen naturally - trust me, you'll know when you want to!

Written by Pheobe 51 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Dont worry so much...I done the exact same thing as you when i done it my first time. We used a condom but i still freaked out because i was late for my period almost 5 weeks but i went to the doctor and they said it was due to stress because i was worrying too much of getting pregnate...but i done an at home pregnancy test just releive me...it was negative of course :) ... So my suggestion is if you dont want to go to the doctor, wait a couple weeks and if you still havent started go take an at home prgnancy test. Until then stop worrying :)

Written by Clyde 45 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I can almost guarantee you are not pregnant. However, please check with either your doctor or get a home pregnancy test. I have seen them in Dollar General Stores for a dollar.

Until you find out, dont kill yourself over it...dont stress out definitely until you know.

Best,

Clyde