I recently met a man about 4 mos ago he was so wonderful then after a month changed really drastically, insecure, non trusting, consumed with his own life and problems, and constantly begging me not to leave him...I haven't dated in a long time but reading on his behavior which was all the time pointed to NPD. But they say NPD people cannot love nor feel any guilt...is that really true..we are all human even if we have problems...I recently got fed up with his outbursts and it's been a month I haven't heard from him...now his usual pattern was within one week or two weeks he would contact me...my friends feel he will again I know he won't or he has found another prey to hurt. Please help with these questions...I know he felt something and know he probably still does..within the second week wanted me as his girlfriend and in three mos marriage..I caught him in a lie and called him on it never heard from him again if I do which I don't think I will how do I handle this I'm scared and sad..I should be happy he is gone but I did like him...help
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