Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together about a year and during that year his drug use has gotten more regular and although he denies it , the paranoia and anger he has is concerning. We have been fighting all the time lately as I have a problem with every thing I say or do being questioned everyday so I get immediately defensive. I have never cheated or anything to deserve the constant doubt he has in me. Also , we have broken up a few times and he painted me as some lying enabler to his parents which made them hate me and now he won't tell them we are back together and it makes me feel like he isn't in this long term. I am just out of ideas. I love him, can we get through this and is it wrong to let it bother me that he hides being with me?