How do I stop wanting sex and a relationship? I have trouble with girls and what's worse is if any other guys are around, the girls want them. It seems like no matter what I do, I'm not what women want. I have friends telling me that they think I can get someone, but the last girl I tried asking out is texting my roomate. Its true I don't get out much but around here, there isn't much to do. Right now I just feel like removing the want of sex and relationships is the only thing for me. I don't see any other way.