I have been in a relationship with my husband for 12 years. It has been a rough relationship, but being married with two beautiful kids, one on the way, I thought we should always keep working on our marraige. Instead, he has decided to leave and given up. We still have to live in the same house, and it is killing me. We are doing it till we sell the house and waiting for our third child to be born. I don't know how to seperate emotionally...and i need to for my own personal well-being. It is sooooo hard. I'm pregnant with second child and love him so much, but he does not want to be with me anymore. He has lied, decieved me and gone on vacations without me. He is definitely emotionally detached. How do I do this when I wasn't the one that asked for it?