My ex is having a baby with someone else after just one month of ending our relationship. I've been having a very difficult time dealing with this. When me and my ex-boyfriend broke up we tried to be friends and hang out from time to time one day out of know where he told me we couldnâ€™t be friends anymore he didnâ€™t give me a clear explanation he just told me he didnâ€™t want me to start to cling to him again. We havenâ€™t spoken since. Later I found out the girl was pregnant at that same particular time and he had made her his girlfriend. I guess she was a rebound gone wrong and he is just taking responsibility for his actions but it still hurts . I try to avoid my ex but I still see him all the time with his new pregnant girlfriend and we donâ€™t say anything to each other. He completely ignores. Out of this entire situation what has hurt me the most has been his indifference towards me. So nonchalantly he pushed me away from his life like I never mattered. He ignore me like he never knew me. Its hard because not to long ago he was my boyfriend and now were strangers. I feel I might need some closure to tell him how I feel about how things have played out after our break up but I wouldnâ€™t know how to start or what to say or even if he would care to listen. Some of my friends have advice me not to talk to him about my feelings and just try to let it go. Iâ€™m full of anger and hurt. I feel like he never cared about me, how did he replaced me so fast and erased me from his life. I donâ€™t know how to get this all off my chest. How can I deal with my unresolved feelings and move on with my life?
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