Avatar Posted by dbain 30 days ago (Question)
I have been in a on again off again relationship for 3 years. There is not enough space to explain some of our problems but a lot of it is not pretty. Short story is she was in a bad relationship a few years ago and so was I, we became friends and then cheated and her ex found out. Not proud of it but it happened, since then her ex has moved to another state and been gone for over a year and I stayed away for 8 months and had moved on. My now partner contacted me and told me she still loved me and can we fix this and we have been trying. She still talks to her ex and I know that she does. They talk about sports, family, jobs..no big deal. My partner and I have been together for 8 months now and things are going pretty good, she moved in with me 1 month ago and decided to tell her ex that she did but I find out she told her it was because of money and I have a gf. I confronted my partner and she told me she did not want to put more salt in her ex's wounds. I read a text she sent her a few days ago telling her ex she "loves her to death and quit labeling her as a liar and cheater, because she "F'd up" I confronted her again and she told me she does love her and always will but is not in love with her and the emotions are gone. If she still loved her she would not be planning a life with me and moved in with me. What do I believe, am I a fool, am I 2nd best?


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Written by dusky1 30 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I think you know the answer to that question!

Written by bellacutie 29 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

This is a very complicated love triangle and I don't know what to tell you. People should always make sure they're finished with one relationship before they jump into another one. Maybe you both need to take a break from each other.

Written by Clyde 29 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I think it is a love triangle too. You may have to break off one of the angles from the triangle before you feel better. It may hurt at first, but all three of you need to feel good about yourselves.

Best,

Clyde


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