Ex girlfriend got back together earlier in yr. All was good sex, talking constantly. Had one agruement she cooled off, then she came back and I cooled off. Stopped talking for 6 months. Just recently kind of got back together. We will hang out, talk, have great sex all night, and I mean all night into the morning. And then she won't call back or talk much until we meet up couple days later again. Am I just a booty call, we have been together off and on for 15 years (since 14yrs old). I can't take much more of this messed up relationship, but I love her and always will love her. I am so confused, because on top of all this I move out of state in less than 2 months. I don't want to leave my true love behind, but I don't want this inconsistent relationship to be my life forever. Would it be best for me just to turn my back and walk away no matter how bad it hurts, eventhough 1000 miles away hasn't stopped us in the past?
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yes! suffering without end or an end with suffering?
Before you do anything, I think you need to seriously consider whether this relationship really has potential, or whether it's just a crutch.
Assuming you decide that you want to try to revive the relationship, I think you need to be straight up with her and ask her what's going on. Tell her what you're looking for - a stable, meaningful relationship - and ask her if that's on her radar. If you're moving and 30, I think this is probably a time for you to get some closure and either make this relationship work or cut it off and move on.
Cheers,
Edahn
P.S. Punctuation is your friend! ;-)
Edahn is correct, except for being a little biting with the punctuation ;)
Find out for yourself, and do not go back if you decide not to do so. Dont become wishy-washy with the relationship. You have become your own worst enemy in that aspect.
Best,
Clyde