Avatar Posted by xyqwg 30 days ago (Question)
me and my boyfriend have been together for a bit over a month, i don't think i like him anymore as he hardly talks and he is quite shy. when i ask him about it he says he doesn't know what to say. at the beginning of our relationship i really liked him however now i don't want to be around him, i am attracted to other guys and even though he doesn't talk to me he gets mad at me for talking to other guys. i notice little things about him which annoy very very much. he says he really loves me but i don't like him; i don't want to break up with him because i don't want to be mean or hurt his feelings, i think that maybe if i got to know him better i might have feelings for him again but i don't know what to do as he doesn't even talk. please helpp. xoxo


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Written by Kerena 30 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I'm a really shy person. and one thing i do know it is very hard for people like me to open up. it takes a lot of time. but you could ask people who is close to him, on how to get through to him. ask them how do get him to be comfortable. someone like his favorite cousin or best friend or something. Or be honest with him. tell him how you want him to open up more or you guys might break up and maybe he'll try to change.

Written by bellacutie 30 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

It's nice ofyou to be concerned for his feelings but you admit he annoys you and you're attracted to other guys. I think you need to be honest and call it quits - you can still be friends if you like. All the best, Bella

Written by Clyde 29 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

If you dont have feelings for him, you really do need to quit it and end it...because in a relationship you both should be happy, not just him.

I know you dont want to hurt him, but it appears to be the only way.

Best,

Clyde

Written by holligirl13 27 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Dont make yourself unhappy over this break up with him if you cant get him to talk maby try to trick him into talking small talk and see if you can get him to start talking


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