I have a boyfriend and I love him to bits, we were friends before we got together and he is very important person to me. I have never been happier, but... I just don't want to have sex with him. It suppose to be our "honeymoon period", it is early days in our relationship, but I don't want him close to me.
We have great time togehther no matter where we are,but sex is a chore for me. I keep on making excuses and he knows it.
I had few bad relationships before and been disapointed by guys, maybe it is because of that. Sex is the last thing that i think of and it so not me, I am 23 and I always had big sex drive. Now, it is all about a man, it feels like it is something i HAVE to do, I want it or not.
My boyfriend sees everything and never forces me, but I feel bad. I feel I can't give him everything he needs....
I just don't know what to think, what has happened to me? Is it something in my past? or is it something in our relationship?..... it really depresses me but I just can't force myself.
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