Avatar Posted by teen 22 days ago (Question)
Hi.

I'm 14 years old and I've had a boyfriend for the past 4and a half months. He is really amazing, perfect actually. There is nothing I don't like about him, but for some reason I don't feel the same way as I did. I don't like him much anymre. I gave it a week of thought and my bestfriend told me to break up with him. Whenever I think about it, I get all teary. Sometimes, I'm okay with breaking up with him, sometimes I'm not okay at all.

I really don't know what to do. He's absolutely amazing.
Thing is, I don't even know if I like him or not. I just might like him, I might not. I don't think it's fair putting him through all of this but I liked him so so much on the past coupele months.
It's our 5 months in around 1 and a half. HELP ME PLEASE.

xxx


Answers

Written by bellacutie 21 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I don't recommend any serious relationships at your age. Relationship are difficult for adults so imagine the difficulties at your age. My daughter is 11 and it's so ridiculous how some of the kids act - they talk about being a couple then a week later they dump each, meanwhile they never go anywhere. Their quote 'relationships' change like the weather LOL. It's very normal at your age to have your feelings go up and down like you describe. Just concentrate on school and have good friendships. Good luck.

Written by Aiika 21 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Hi, I'm 14 too, to me it is more important to do schoolwork because relationships at our age might be troublesome... and if it feels like you're unsure weather you like this boy then it might just be a crush? well uhm... yeah. ^^;;

Written by Clyde 20 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Things can definitely change with relationships, for anyone, especially at your age. It might be yourself trying to figure out what to do with your life.

Think it through, and you might just go ahead and break up with him, until you would/are sure.

Best,

Clyde


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