Avatar Posted by TheDeep1985 18 days ago (Question)
I am a 24 year old woman who practices consensual BDSM with my long term boyfriend. I have been very interested in BDSM for most of my sexual life. My partner worries that my desire for BDSM stems from physical and mental abuse I suffered as a child. I was not sexually abused. Should I be worried?


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Written by bellacutie 18 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Are you the giver or receiver of the BDSM? What do you think? Do you have any problems elsewhere in your life from the childhood abuse. I can't say for sure if it related or not.

Written by Clyde 18 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

No. Things cannot always be the causation of something because they are a bit different or "weird" or off-kilter to what others may think.

Are there any issues you can think of from your past as a child? If not, I wouldnt worry about it. Of course, if there are, then that could be a different story. But, it doesnt necessarily mean that it is either.

Best,

Clyde


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