Avatar Posted by carmelam23 22 days ago (Question)
my husband recently told me he dont love me or wanna be with me no more.. due to that fact that i accuse him of cheating too much.. we got 2 kids n argue n fight alot.. he recently told me he dont wanna have sex with me no more he is calling me nasty and everything to push me away from him... one day i go to his job he is on lunch break sitting at a table with 7 other females n 1 male.. i sit down say hey hunny his eyes got big.. he is late comming home from work some nights like 45 min to 1 hr when we only live 10 min away he wont let me see his cell phone he changed the password to his email and set a password for the comp i got my own... he wont kiss me hug me or nothing n he is even trying to push our 2 yr old son away from him.. i really think he is cheating on me.....


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Written by cherylsmoochie 22 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

He is leave! What else do you need to hear and see? You are in denial!

Written by carmelam23 21 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

ya i just dont wanna believe it you kno i got 2 kids a 2 1/2 yr old n a 5 mo old .. i have no where to go leaving just isnt that easy for me at the moment

Written by bellacutie 21 days ago Rating: 1 | Rate Answer: + -

If you can afford it, you should both be in marriage counselling together if he's willing to stay and work on the marriage. It must hurt you alot to hear him say he doesn't love you anymore. Calmly(don't fight) ask him if he wants to be in this marriage and whether he's truly cheating. If there's no hope then you should separate because fighting isn't good for the kids. If he doesn;t love you, then he should leave - not you. Good luck! Bella

Written by Aiika 21 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I think you should try to get some kind of counselling or sit down and have a good talk about it. But I also think that you should try to keep calm because things like this can affect your childeren if the atmostphere is scary for them.. best wishes. Aiika

Written by Chemar 20 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

so sorry this is happening carmelam

if he really wants out of the marriage then it is he who needs to leave, and he will need to provide support for you and the children.

you cant force him to stay with you, tho it would be good if he would agree to have some kind of counseling to see if the marriage can be saved.

but if he still wants out, make sure it is he who leaves and that he provides support for you and your children. You can get legal help to ensure that!

Written by Clyde 20 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

It doesnt sound like either of you can make a stable relationship at this moment. Why not try to move on? Can you go back to your family, friends, etc?

Best,

Clyde


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