Avatar Posted by ConradG 87 days ago (Question)
well my girlfriend is really pregnant. it's going to be our first kid and i love her very much.

anyway a few weeks ago we got pulled over and i could tell she was upset. while the cop was checking our info i looked over and she was crying. i guess she was upset because we got pulled over and i've noticed her being pregnant made her a lot more sensitive to things.
anyway i dont want to seem like a pervert but when i looked over and saw her sitting there crying and all swollen and fat from the baby fat it broke my heart a little and at the same time it made me really horny.
of course i didnt act on it or say anything and i assured her it was okay and it was just a ticket.
im not into hurting people or anything and i would never try to make my girlfriend cry, but it just seems like thats wrong of me to get aroused by her crying. its not a huge deal and i not going to bring it up to her or anyone i was only wondering if this is normal ?


Answers


bella
87 days ago
Hi - I try to avoid labeling actions etc. as normal or abnormal. If she were to cry in relation to her being upset from you - do you think you would have the same reaction? Most men find a crying woman, annoying and puzzling which is why many women get upset at the 'lack of reaction'. If you were turned on by her crying because of you doing/saying something....then yes this would be bad.

Has this only happened since the pregnancy and this one incident? It could be you were feeling deep empathy for her and seeing her as vulnerable...which brought out the 'I'm the MAN' in you lol. As long as you aren't making her cry and then get turned on, you're fine. Best of luck with your new baby.
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