My fiance and I are going to be married in about 5 weeks. He has concerns that it isn't going to work, because we only have sex a few times a month. We work alternate shifts so that someone will be home to watch our 2 year old son. See each other in passing, and have 2 days off together each week, one of which he goes to play games with his friends. When we do have time off together, it's normally running errands and spending time with our son, and by the end of the day, I am often to tired, or we have had a disagreement about something and I don't feel like having sex. Is this normal? He also accuses me of being unfaithful when I have had basically no social life since our son was born, and this could be triggered by something as simple as my sexy nightgown being on top of the clothes in my drawer, or checking me e-mail when he is still asleep. I've told him countless times that i am not about carrying extra baggage and if I would rather be with someone else I would be (as in I wouldn't be with two at once). When I bring this up as a possible cause of my low sex drive (feeling put down and degraded) he tells me i am avoiding the problem and trying to put blame on him.... What can I do? Is there something wrong with my libido?
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