Me and my boyfriend Mike split up a while ago now but i have never been able to get over him. I love him so much im prepared to do anything for him. He says he still loves me but he wants me to wait until him and his new girlfriend break up properly because shes going through a rough time at the moment. Im trying everything in my power to win him back i was bulimic for a while because i thought maybe he thought i was fat but then my mum took me to the doctors and they've helped me stop being sick but now im comfort eating 24/7 because im just so depressed and sad, my friends and family have gotten used to me being sad all the time but i dont want to be sad and depressed anymore. I just want to be with Mike. ='[


Answers


younoulvme
2088 days ago
I have been there and it's very difficult to deal with.The thing that I realized was that I was never going to listen to anyones advice when they said move on and get over it,It was to hard to do...I'm sure a lot of people have all ready told you that due to the obvious miserable impact on your life that it has become.My best advice is to give that situation and relationship space.Try and focus on other aspects going on in your life.DO things that make you happy.Surround yourself with positive people.You might not feel any different at first but you need this trust me.Maybe what you want isn't the best for you, it just might not be whats meant for you.It sounds to me that you need to get over him like how I had and was forced to( he said the same things too but nothing ever changed I waited for nothing but to be more attached).It may be Love to you but later you might find to learn that it was more of a routine and infatuation than just love.There is some things that you just have to learn in life and a broken heart is one of them, don't let it control you like i did. move on.



maliveliki
2079 days ago
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younoulvme
2088 days ago
One more thing.Ways to move on.

I found out that I didn't get over the guy until I was forced to not see him.I went to into a state like how you did, I wouldn't eat and did some other stupid things that wound me up in the hospital.Anyways after all that stupid stuff I found that this truly helped me.I ended up hanging out with new people and other guys that i found more attractive in every aspect.I started taking more care of my self ( eat proper, worked out,found desire in cute clothing and took fashion risks).LOl This sounds bad but I found a interest in other men and that was when I started to get over the guy who broke my heart. He will be in back of your mind a little but eventually it will go away.

By the way sounds of it it seems like hes just not that into you. Him being with you shouldn't be determine him being there for another woman.He could do both at the same time but why.His cares obviously go towards the other woman.Hes putting her first.Hes keeping you on the side as a "just in case" kind of a deal. Take it as it is and force yourself to get over it.



Clyde
2088 days ago
Hi my dear.

Sadly, to me, it sounds like he just wants to let you hanging.

You really do need to find a way to get over it. Could you talk to a therapist, and see how best to get over it?

Best,

Clyde



HeartBroken93
2086 days ago
Hi thank you very much for all your advice i really appreciate it really i do but to all of you who said he wants to leave me hanging he doesnt hes not like that at all he just doesnt want anyone getting hurt and the only reason he wont split up with his girlfriend is because her nephew has just died which i totally understand the thing is i dont want to move on i just want ways to forget about it until the time comes.

Nikki



tat2doc
2083 days ago
Consider this: anything after the word "But", is BS. If you want something bad enough, you drop everything to get it. So it is with relationships. I left a wife, good job, etc for a chance with my highschool sweetheart. (which didn't work out) But I went for what I thought I wanted. No matter what I left behind.

Someone will always get hurt. Just a question who.



HeartBroken93
2081 days ago
Thank you so much for that so far your my favorite lol i totally agree with you and i know this is right for me honestly iv known it for nearly over two years now i know hes the one because even if someone even mentions his name i get this weird tingly feeling in my chest. I know people will get hurt in this but what i keep thinking is well really hes hurting himself too if he still loves me and he cant leave her. Mikes just one of those people who likes to make people happy and hes always putting others feelings before his own. Thank you very much for your advice =]

Nikki