My wife and I have been married for almost 10 years. We have a five year old daughter. For the past two years, my wife and I have had problems.The usual arguments over parent duties, money and of couse sex. Recently, she told me that she has lost interest in sex, and does not want it nor need it. We have slept in seperate beds for a year now, and I hate it! Also, we both have seen counselors, but not as a couple, I saw mine on two seperate occasions months apart, and she saw hers every week for about 8 weeks. Consequently, we have not seen a counselor together as a couple> earlier in the year she had her yearly check-up, and she told her doctor about her low sex drive. She was given a shot and nothing changed. She recently went back for a physical, and again she expressed to her doctor that this was ok.