Avatar Posted by feellikecrap 146 days ago (Question)
I have been dating this girl for about a month, she thinks i am great and has bought me gifts and all that. She is 25 and i am 40. The sex is good. I have a problem, though; i lied bout my age. I look younger than I actually am. I am just wondering when i tell her what is going to happen. Should i consider the relationship over and focus on finding someone more myage? Also, I met her mom by accident and her mom likes me thinks im a nice guy. Shes told her family and some of her friends bout me. I didnt think something like this would move so fast. In a way i do care about her and love her. Do i need to grow up? Any advice?


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Written by Edahn 146 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Just be honest and tell her. Tell her why you lied too, and if it's really out of character for you, then say that too. Give her a sincere apology and tell her that you feel guilty about it. Ask her if that changes things for her in a really mature, open way. She might be bothered by your age, but worse, she might be bothered by your lying. Either way, you'll have to accept the consequences and know better next time.

Written by sspangen 146 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

If this relationship really is going somewhere, it's very important taht you tell her. It also depends on how old you said you are. Lying is still bad, but saying 35 isn't that horrible because she still knows theres a big age difference. DONT let her find out on her own; if age matters to her she will just be angry. But yes, you should tell her.

Written by Clyde 145 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Whoa! In a way? Is that for the Mom or for the daughter? That could definitely change things.

I definitely say tell her. What if you married her? Would you want the whole relationship to be based on lies?

Best,

Clyde

Written by ineedhelp 139 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Listen, it doesn't matter how old you are as long as you are honest with her. Women take honestly seriouly so don't mess with her about this. Just be trueful with her and if she accepts you the way (or age you are) then she will understand; if not she is not meant for you. Wishing you the best, and if you need me I am here for you. Mell


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