Hey all!

I'm here wondering what you would do if you were in this situation. You may judge me, and you'd probably be right to, but I'm here for your advice all the same!

I have been dating my current boyfriend for nearly 3 years. My friends tell me that I'm extremely lucky to have found him, and I agree. He respects me, he protects me, he's polite to my family and is always trusting.

Before him, I had only ever dated one other guy, and the relationship was hell. My ex was older than me and was controlling, violent and both physically and mentally abusive - in addition, he also spent Read More »
When I was on my way to class, my step dad takes me and we usually drive by where I used to live, my old neighborhood where I used to live when I was 14 years old, my ex (aka my first love) used to live two blocks away from me. I look my right side and see my old neighborhood, I get these flashbacks about him how we met, how he used to come over to see me and pick up my brother to go to a boxing gym across the street from my house, and how he made me smile, and then it goes away, this happens on weekdays and deep down it made me sad.

Over a year ago, I found him before my 20th birthday, i Read More »

My husband and I have been married 31 years and have enjoyed a heathy sex life until recently. In the past few months I have started doing something that I have never done before. During intercourse, I clamp down and push out my husband's penis. I am not aware that I am doing this, he says that it feels that I am pefectly relaxed at the time. There isn't any pain involved at all and it isn't that he can't penetrate, its just during. I have researched some but the only thing that I can come up with is this Vaginitmus or something like that. That doesn't help me much either because I don't Read More »
cool well were do i start, my bride to be meet whn i was about 13 she is older thn i am an was 15 or 16, we talked all the time over the phone an she was the 1st person i was in a way sexual interacted with she lives in Co me in Az she we txted naughty things not hard core stuff cause i was only 13 an didnt really know wat i was doing but i flirted with her an got a couple of pic of her. after this went on for a while i got caught with the pics an texts, tht summer was the year i started high school an than after i matured abit we started talkin again,we talked all throught my freshmen an sho Read More »
We met in high school. We are the same age and she was a sweet girl but had a slight rogue side which I liked as I had the same attributes. When she finished her final year high school exams she had a score that allowed her to study at some of the better universities around town. She did not immediately apply for university, she just wanted any old job and to not have a load of commitments. I understood that, as I was an apprentice cabinet maker (not too hard:)) and was doing a trade certificate at the time. We would go to parties, clubs and bars and were enjoying life as late teens early twe Read More »
I have been with my partner for just under 18 months. He is a fantastic man. At the start of our relationship it was important that it was serious so we dicided to start a family and fell pregnant by 3 months. While i have also known my partner loves a small bet on the horses it didn't seem to be anything to worry about. However a couple of months ago he "urgently" needed to pay an outstanding bill that i was unaware of so i let him use almost the last of our money for a fortnight to pay it. I also went to the pub the next day with him and i had put i think $50 aside so he could have a drink Read More »
My wife and I have been married for almost 14 years now, our marriage started out really rocky, i was in an accident and had surgery and was medicated to a point where i didnt know if i was coming or going. I ended up getting into a fight with her and somehow police got involved and i said she was abusing our son at that time was 1 year old. Since then its been almost over 13 years since that day and i have never disrespected her in any way shape or form, infact i treat her like a queen i do everything for her, cook, clean, laundry, take care of kids even though my only down fall is its hard Read More »
I've been dating the same fellow for a couple of years now and the last number of months has giving me grown concern and I'm not sure how to approach or even handle this situation.

I've always known that he has had tendencies to watch porn and booty shake videos on YouTube.

But over the summer I came across pictures he secretly took of girls under the tables at the library on his phone and he was also downloading chat applications on his cell phone. I've confronted him about these and dealt with it. Or so I thought. As now I see that he is searching up beastiality on the internet. I rea Read More »
I'm 26 years old. I prefer not to use my real name, for safety reasons. When I was in high school, I got bullied a lot, which I couldn't take well. I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and schitzophrenia when I was a junior in high school. I never went out as a kid like most did, in fact my highlights for high-school were finishing the Iliad and making cookies by myself. I was always alone, mostly because I was precieved as violent, which wasn't true, I just couldn't discern the voices in my head from what was real until later. Its still hard now. I didn't really date much in high-school, mo Read More »
Who I am:
Female - 28 years old - got married last May
Only has a partial left ovary
I am 200 lbs and 5'2 in height
I am half chinese but I am dark
Best or possible diagnosis of BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder)

Where it Started:
When I was 5 I remember spying on my mom - to see if behind my back she was talking to someone else and if she had another family when I'm not around. That was weird I thought, before that, when she was pregnant with my little brother she used to hit me, bite me, slap me and all. I was a battered child back then. It was hard, hurtful and scary but that d Read More »