Avatar Posted by Pebbles 53 days ago (Question)
My friends husband went on-line, found a girlfriend in vegas and met her while vacationing with his buddies. Then he continued to text, call and visit her every two months without his buddies. This happenend for about a year till my friend found out. What should she do? They've been married for 30 years! This is totally out of character.


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Written by Chemar 53 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Has she confronted her husband? Is he willing to stop his infidelity? If he is, and if she can forgive and move past this, then they have already begun the healing process to save their marriage.

If she hasnt yet told him that she knows, the sooner she does so the better as otherwise it will just fester and become even worse.

It may be that the only way they can move forward is to go to professional marriage counseling therapy.

I hope they manage to salvage their marriage...30 years is a long time and hopefully they can move past this to an even deeper commitment to one another, tho it wont be easy for her to rebuild the trust that has been lost. But if she wants to save her marriage, and he is willing to give up the other woman, there is always hope!

Written by Aneohoh 52 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Sometimes, particularly after 30 years, people are looking for excitement in their relationships.

If he leaves his wife for this woman, he will be burned bad.

It's not what SHE should do, it's what he should do.

Personally, I think she's got him over a barrell..... hope she takes everything in the barrell!

Written by Clyde 45 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

It depends on what she feels like. I think basically, she and he should go to counseling if she wants to save the marriage, however if she doesnt, why stick around? Kick him out of the house.

Best,

Clyde


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