I'm 18, depressed, and I self harm. I'm seeing my university's counselor for my depression and self harm, but I feel like this is something I can't talk to him about. He knows about all the roots of my depression that I can think of (aside from this one), and he is helping me to identify my triggers for self harm.
My problem is this:
I go to a Christian university. I have a lot of sexual tension built up, and I can't get rid of it. It's not that I don't know how to get rid of it, it's that I don't know how to get rid of it without ruining my witness.
Do you have any advice on how I can deal with this without taking it out on my arm and without doing anything that my school would consider immoral?
I would talk about this with my counselor, but it is a very taboo subject on campus.
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