Avatar Posted by unloved 209 days ago (Question)
My husband has recently made his email and phone private. He told me I have no business knowing his private conversations. He is acting VERY suspicious, lying, deleting texts ,angry outbursts .... He claims I am controlling and psychotic. Should spouses have secret email and text? I have no problem with him seeing mine, I have nothing to hide!


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Written by drjean 209 days ago - Show / Hide this answer Rating: -1 | Rate Answer: + -

Written by Clyde 209 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Theres nothing wrong with having private accounts, but the behaviors exhibited and the comments that go with them are kind of worrisome.

Could he go see a doctor?

Best,

Clyde

Written by Loner 207 days ago - Show / Hide this answer Rating: -1 | Rate Answer: + -

Written by Tico3169 204 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Every individual is entitled to their own personal privacy and space. Should you be allowed to go out with same-sex friends without your husband having the right to tape the conversation? Of course you should. How would you feel if he requested this? Pretty darned shocked I bet. I am a firm believer in being open and honest with one's spouse, but let's not go overboard just because we're now in a digital society. Big brother anyone?


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