My sis n law has accused me of smoozing my mom n law to get her valuables (none known) says I am fattening my hubby up for the kill. She will talk endlessly about herself and if I try to get a word in, she gets mad that I don't listen. I'm not the only one who can't stand her. No one in the family likes her. She will call me and complain if the b-day card I send her is a day late, but NEVER sends me one for my b-day? I drive to fast, slow, don't use my signals proper, etc. No one else complains? She's in a fight with someone every day. HOW do I get her to stop bitching about everything and let someone else talk once in a while?