I need help! I'm engaged to the most amazing man in the world. I love him more than anything and I would never ever do anything to hurt him and he would never hurt me. He and his best friend are really close and we enjoy having him over for dinner and going on outings together. I do not want to be with this person, he is a good friend and I have no romantic feelings for him or desire to be in a relationship with him. But lately I have been having very graphic and realistic dreams about having passionate, amazing sex with him. It happens almost every night. And now whenever my fiance and I are hanging out with him, I feel this strong sexual tension between us. I keep imagining just going into the other room with him and getting it over with. My fiance and I have an amazing sex life, he is always satisfying me and I am not and have not ever been bored of our sex life. So why am I getting these feelings? I have not talked about this to anyone. Whenever me and my fiance's best friend are in a room together, I just feel this sexual connection even though I have no romantic feelings for him, and I think he feels it too. What do I do? Do I talk to his best friend about it? Why am I feeling this? How can I make it stop? Please help.
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