Avatar Posted by mlynnp 41 days ago (Question)
Why do guys still touch you someway when they see you when the relationships over? They say its over yet when they see you they grab your butt or some other jesture. Is it because they still care about you or are they just used to doing that and feel comfortable doing it.

No one is answering the question asked. Just trying to find out from a guys perspective why they do this. Thanks for the advice but that's not what I"m looking for.


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Written by Chemar 41 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

just tell them it isn't ok to touch what isn't theirs!

Written by bellacutie 41 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I agree - just tell them to back off.

Written by Fpsy 41 days ago Rating: 1 | Rate Answer: + -

I think its because they still feel that they are entitled to do that because they did it before. Yes I agree with other posters, you need to set boundaries with the men and tell them it's not ok for them to continue to touch you like that. It's also not very respectful to you as a person, especially if it's in a public place.

Just let them know that your not in a relationship anymore and it's not ok for them to do that. If they get annoyed with that and tell you to lighten up, that's their problem not yours. You don't want to remain friends with someone who can't respect your boundaries.

Written by dusky1 41 days ago Rating: 1 | Rate Answer: + -

seriously....if a guy touches you after you two have broken up....it's also obviously because you allow him too...so like everyone said....don't allow him to.

Written by Clyde 41 days ago Rating: 1 | Rate Answer: + -

Do not allow him to do so, especially after he broke up with you. Please dont let them feel like they are "entitled" to be with you after the fact.

That also is hell on your self esteem, also.

Best,

Clyde


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