Ok, so i broke up with my boyfriend and now i'm finding stuff out that happened while we were still dating. Like at prom he went and was kissing his ex while i was there and we were dating. Also i'm finding out that he was lying to me. Like i smelled beer on his breath and i asked him about and he swore on his life he hated beer and didnt drink any he told me it was his meds. But then i was telling my current boyfriend about it and he said that my ex told him that he was at a party the previous night and drank some beer. He also lied about a tatoo that he has, it's a pair of eyes and he said he had a dream that he had a little girl and those were her eyes, but they were acually his ex's. So i want to know if i should ask him why he was doing all that or leave it alone.
Written by Chemar 24 days ago
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Hi
he is your ex
you have a new boyfriend
best to just leave the ex and all his doings behind and let yourself move forward in your new relationship. Sounds like perhaps you should just be thankful he is an ex!
Written by Clyde 20 days ago
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Why bother with it? Why bring it back up? It sounds like you are worried about leaving him, but come on, you both are separated, in different relationships, and you want to find out what is going on with your past one?
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Hi
he is your ex
you have a new boyfriend
best to just leave the ex and all his doings behind and let yourself move forward in your new relationship. Sounds like perhaps you should just be thankful he is an ex!
Why bother with it? Why bring it back up? It sounds like you are worried about leaving him, but come on, you both are separated, in different relationships, and you want to find out what is going on with your past one?
Let it go.
Best,
Clyde