Posted by Azumi 180 days ago (Question)
i met my ex bf at school, im older than him, im 28 and he's 20. He came to me first and wanted to date me. We had a really good time at first, then i feel like he completely ignored me. I take care of him, but it seems like he doesn't appreciate that. we saw each other every day before, then he said that he is so busy to spend time with me, we barely see each other even we live in the same dorm. I'm the only one who wants to make this relationship better but not him even he was the one who wanted to start this relationship. I went home for Christmas break and he hadn't called me but once. I kept calling him and complainted about this. I only wanted him to care about me just a little bit, just call me everyday even 5 mins to see how im doing and to make me feel that i have a bf, but he said he wasn't ready for relationship and he wanted to be friend. He said he loves me before but when i asked him if he loves me or not, he said he was attracted to me but that wasnt love at all. i have to say this, im the only asian girl at school and have a good looking. somehow i just feel that he wanted to be with me because im pretty and because im being the only asian in town. he worked hard to get me, then when he had me, he changed. We don't have anything in common but i tried a lot in this relationship. we had great time together before and now im hurt really bad. i still love him and don't want to lose him. please help me to get him back?
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