Avatar Posted by xxmsmaryxx 372 days ago (Question)
i keep getting dreams that my girlfriend is cheating on me one way or another with her ex. my last dream that happened, my girlfriend wrote her ex a letter saying that she loves her more than me in the present tense form. lately things havent been the same but she claims theres nothing going on. shes cheated on me once with her ex. does my dream mean shes doin it again?


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Written by Drayden 372 days ago Rating: 1 | Rate Answer: + -

Not necessarily, but your subconsciuos is working over time because YOU are so worried about it! I would suggest you either make a pact with yourself to forgive and forget, or move on because your causing yourself a lot of heartbreak dwelling on this.

Written by Clyde 368 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I agree with Drayden. From what you have told us--nothing going on--it does sound and seem like you are letting your mind wonder and worry about their being a possibility happening of the cheating again.

Discuss with her how you feel--or seek help about being insecure about the relationship.

Best,

Clyde

Written by pacconltd 367 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

You are not healthy for your girlfriend. Your dream has more to do with you wanting out of the relationship than real fear of her being back with her ex. Let go. If you are going to be together, you will have to be willing to lose your expectations and your control over things and be willing to accept what you have, when you have it. I don't think you are ready for this.

The Dream Guy


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