What should I do

Posted by caramellaswtz 25 days ago (Question)

I am in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 3 1/2 years now. We have a child and I find that we are constantly arguing about stupid little things. We had our ups and downs in the past and trust issues regarding female friends. We decided to make it work and give it another try. I have let go of my male friends, but he totally has not completely. So everytime we argue I bring up the past issues regarding females. Am I wrong to bring up the past when it comes to arguments. I love him and all but he works all day and I still have that habit in checking his phone. I also feel our communication level has decreased, what should I do.

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Written by Chemar 25 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

the only way to move forward is to leave the past behind!

If he has made amends and you want this relationship to continue, you have to stop punishing him for what happened before and focus on building on what you have now

JMHO

Written by Clyde 25 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Way to go Chemar!

If you want to keep the relationship going, you have to let past things be in the past, if not, then you have to let it all go.

Best,

Clyde

Written by dimynna 25 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

YOU have to learn to trust your partner. Without trust your relationship won't last and that's any relationship. If he still has female friends then you should still have male friends but they have to stay just that.....friends. If your boyfriend isn't sleeping with them then let it go, if he is let HIM GO!!!!