well i have a friend she's 19 he is 20 i known them for a long time he is very abusive towards her and has been for long time now even when she was pregnet he beat her i have stoped him many of times even went to jail cuz i hit him to show him what it was like to be hit by a real man well i can deal with it any longer but if i dont who will he will just keep on getting away with it what do i do i dont want to go to jail over a worth less bumb like him but dont want to see her get hurt any more either plzz help me any one
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change her mind or change his... by that I mean kill him and get away with it. If u're not wanting to get arrested I suggest wear plastic gloves bury the body in a swamp or set it to the river bottom with weights. burn the cloths you used and either steal a knife or use one you have had for a while. sneak up on him when hes alone. wear a hairnet and try getting him when he's near a forest and alone. stop his car if you have to but get the right car. wear skintight cloths coated with plastic. DON'T TELL YOUR SISTER OR FRIENDS. another good idea is to STEAL a rifle and shoot him from afar, while hes in his car. you must run away stealthily and do the shooting on tarp so you leave no hair or powder. don't get prints on the bullet. hide the rifle and equipment somewhere at least 50 miles away and have and hide them in the woods. tell no one you left. take a trip away from town 2 weeks later and hide the rifle somewhere a couple of states over. no one will no, and no one will care about the poor shit you shot.
Happy Hunting
Allegri
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Hi there
Fist of all I don’t want to discourage you but he is not a kind of person who would change. Most of the time abusive men don’t change so easy. If you really want to help the girl change her mind. What I want to say is that try to show her that he is not good for her. Convince her to leave him. It’s not gone be easy especially if she is stuck with him. So help her to understand there is a better person for her. And teach her respect herself so that she will force him respect her. If once she calls police on him, he will realise things are not as easy as he thinks. Depending how smart she is she will change is a short time.
good luck
cangaroo
i dont know tht is a good idea i think i will go to the police something has to be done about this i know she will get upset but it would be probably the best of things in the end i worry about her alot i hate guys like her b/f i dont think he would go after her if i talked to him but i dont think i could talk decent to him i might end up hitting him again so i try to avoid that as much as possible THANKS for input it help me out little bit
Hi Bones,
Have you thought about posting a complaint about him yourself to the police? It may help if you did, but then again, she might be upset at you if you did as well. You could possibly make an anonymous complaint, I guess.
Sadly, a lot of people keep staying with someone who does do this stuff to them because they do not feel that good about themselves, and they feel that this person that they are with is the only person that they can be around period, or the only person that would have them.
Have you tried to talk to her about her feelings and how she feels? She would do great to see a T or something to that effect, but I can understand how close to impossible it is.
And, of course, while I don't condone violence, if you talked to him, would you think he would hurt her more or do you think he would leave her alone? That may not be the best choice by far of any of those choices I have presented.
She is very lucky to have a great friend like you, though. I wish she had a great friend in herself.
Best,
Clyde