In every relationship I've had I have never felt loved or like I can love (I haven't had very many relationships anyways..). The whole concept of it just seems unreal to me, and I'm so sure I'll never have it. Even with my family I feel like the feelings have nothing to do love or caring, don't get me wrong my family is perfectly ok for the moment. But these feelings seem absolutly normal to me, the only reason I'm asking is because the person I'm with is complaining that they don't feel loved enough since I've never told them I loved them before, hell I've never said that to anyone and I don't think I ever will. Is it weird or is this normal for people? Is there something wrong with me?
Just incase it'll help, I was abused as a child for a long number of years.
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