I flat out hate sex. I have been married to my husband for 3 years now and of the couple times that I had an orgasm I sat in my bathroom and cried for 2 hours or more afterward. I even have a baby boy, I still think it is the most repulsive thing ever, actually more so. I would have rather adopted and had my vagina sewed shut. I read another post that was similiar to this one and it said to go find a therapist to reclaim this normal and enjoyable part of your life. What happens when you don't want to enjoy it? I have NO problem not having sex in my life but my husband has threatened to leave me. I was doing pretty good at faking enjoying it but a friend of mine ratted me out that I told her I was faking. Now he says he wants me to really enjoy it. I've started hating him for it and he's threatened to leave for not wanting sex. I just wondered if there is something I could do about it? Should I just let him leave?
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