I have been dating a guy since June. During July-October I moved to Detroit to stay with my family while I had surgery (we live in NY). While I was gone, he cheated on me. In November I had a dream that he cheated on me with our friend Heather. Then two weeks later another one where he cheated on my with a girl named Alyssa. A few nights ago I had a third dream where he left me for Heather.
Am I just messing with myself, or should I be worried?
Am I just messing with myself, or should I be worried?
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Once a cheater always a cheater! I've been there....there's something inside the man that needs other women to validate him. They don't change. I used to say he comes home to me...and I really thought that it was a phase. Needless to say he remarried an woman 10 years his junior and cheated on her too. Now he lives alone and can have all the women he wants...but today he is alone and miserable. Good ridance to bad news!
Dreams are dreams. However, I do think if he cheated on you before, it is possible he will again, but only you and he can truly answer that question.
Best,
Clyde