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<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 20:01:19 -0500</pubDate>
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<title><![CDATA[How do you learn to open up?]]></title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 20:01:19 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>fashiongurl</dc:creator>
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<description><![CDATA[I'm having a few problems, see the thing is I really need to talk to someone. But I can't because I'm so afraid of being in a vulnerable position that I won't let myself do it. I'm afraid that if I tell someone what I'm feeling or what I'm going through that there just going to tell all the wrong people and that would crush me. I can't risk being in that vulnerable position. But I have sooo many things inside my head, I don't know what to do. I really, really, really need tips on how to be okay with opening up to someone without thinking the entire time that there going to go tell my parents or the counselor or someone in that nature. You know sometime you just need to vent and let everything out, but I'm afraid and not sure what to do. If anyone, anyone at all could give me any tips on how not to be afraid of telling someone how I'm feeling it would be so very appreciated. Like you have no idea how much I need to do this. But it scares the living crap out of me to have those kinds of conversations. I get very very nervous and figit-e and I can't get the words to come out. I have no idea what to do anymore and could use any advice anyone is willing to give me.Thanks so much for you time,It is very much appreciated,Thanks so much,Fashiongurl<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should i stay or should i go]]></title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 18:50:40 -0500</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[My wife of 20 years was molested by step dads and uncles for several year. She was in a foster home for a while. At age 15 she had got pregnant by a druggie boyfriend and her mom made her have an abortion. Her mom has been married 8 times also.  During our marriage she has had 3 affairs. I just found out from my daughter that she had found another phone in my wife's purse, she went thru the text and there was some vulgar ones. I then caught her texting him what she was doing to herself in the tube while thinking about him. She tells me it was just mental not physical with him. And she has been talking to him for a year.  She tells me she needs help, I know she needs help, that is why i have been with her for so long, i also think she is bi polar, always depressed. We have 2 kids, son 15, and daughter 17, I told her it was time we went our separate ways, I am getting an apartment in the next few weeks. I work a 24 on and 48 off shift. She wants the kids to stay with me and on the days i work she would stay there with the kids. on my 2 days off she will stay at her moms but wants 1 of the days to be together with the kids.  She says she just doesnt want to hurt me or the kids anymore. Her issues with me is I havent trusted her after we got back together 3 years ago. She said she can see it in my eyes and that in my eye she would always be a slut. I love her so much and the thought of not being with her kills me. If she gets help, which she says she is doing,  which i want her to do so bad, should i try again to make things work? She has been my life, and my best friend for 20 years.<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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