My boyfriend is 26 years older then me has two kids from past marriage and they are 25 and 35 we have a son who is 10 and i have a daughter who is 13 we been together for 12 yrs. and he kids never attend my daughters birthday and they treated me like they have to except me because of their dad i really am not apart of them i have tried so hard and get hurt i try to say what i am feeling to him and if i say anything about his kids he blows up.they never bought me nothing for Christmas for 5 yrs and so looking like the black sheep and setting and watching i went to my daughters room to avoid the hurt i was feeling when they left i was yelled at and said to never to do that gain to make his kids feel unwelcome. his 25 yr old lives with us and she is let to do whatever not paying anything she is a RN nurse i feel she needs to move out . he will not try to get close to my daughter please tell me what i am doing wrong .
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no there is no one , his 25 year old does things with our son but not my dughter she is out casted like i am.
(((KTiger)))
I dont see that you are doing anything wrong there. I can't see why your husband would be unsupportive of you in this situation, knowing that you need to feel welcome with his older children.
How does his kids deal with your younger kids?
If he doesn't treat you fairly with the older kids, chances are he won't treat you fairly at all.
I'm very sorry for how he and the family has treated you. I hope that perhaps you can get him to understand. Is there anyone in the family at all that could help discuss this with him and get him to see?
Best,
Clyde