My friend that is a really good friend of mine told me she seen my boyfriend and his friend at a store and he looked high.I noticed he hasn't been to work in 4 days.I'm starting to get concerned but I'm scared to ask him because I don't know how to ask..I need help please.
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Could you ask him how he has been the last week, or since the last time you saw him? You might bring up things such "How is work" and the like.
You may say something like, "Honey (my friend) saw you at (the store) the other day." Did you remember seeing them?
You do need to be direct, though, if he does admit it to you. You don't want to be wishy-washy if he admits to it, especially if you are anti-drug...
Be safe with it also, if you fear or worry about things going bad, you may want to ask with one of his or your trusted friends there...
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