My boyfriend and I have been together for the past 2 years on and off. He relocated to where his daughter lives to be closer to her and I joined him months later. We have been living together for 6 months now. I do think of marriage time to time but I know that it would be impossible right now since he's still married. He has been separated from his wife for a few years now and none of them have filed for divorce. I don't know what's stopping him since money is not the issue. Can someone please give me advice on why he hasn't divorced her yet and if anyone has been in the same situation.


2890 days ago
He would be the best one to fill you in on that. Is he evading the question? I think it's a perfectly reasonable question. You don't say that you actually have discussed this in a calm situation (like after sex for example.) May be he can open up and share the secret with you. I think he should.

2890 days ago
Does he live with you all the time or spends some night there as well? Does his wife know about you? I think you definatley need to ask your BF - he's the only one who knows this answer. Personally I think it's a mistake to get involved unless there's divorce proceedings in process.

2889 days ago
Yes, he does live with me full time and spends his days off with his daughter and yes his wife does know about me. I just think he has attachment issues and can't let go of either one of us. My issue is I wonder sometimes if loves either one of us.

2889 days ago
If I were you I would defiantly talk to him. Because something just doesn't seem right. Does he not want to divorce her thinking they may get back together or what? If so, then he needs to tell you now. So he doesn't lead you on. So I agree with bellacutie, and blamueg you should talk to him, and tell him how you really feel about things.

2887 days ago
Married people shouldn't have bf/gf. Period. Time to choose. tick tock tick tock